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Flipping Out

nov 2012 008This morning I did something spectacular. I never attempted this activity before. I guess as an unwilling “senior” I decided it was time spice it up. Try something new. Put some excitement into my ho-hum life. I don’t know what preempted me to challenge myself; perhaps it was the inspiration I got from the interviews of the Olympic athletes or Mathew McConaughey on CBS Sunday morning.  So, when the program ended, I got out of my chair and went into the kitchen. I was ready to push the edges. Try something never attempted in my whole life. I was ready to blaze a trail. (Add any other “out-there” cliches you can think of here.)

Are you ready? Here it is: I flipped a crepe like a REAL chef! Yup. That’s right. I steadied my wrist, swirled the the skinny little pancake in my skillet and flipped it into the air over the hot flame of my gas stove. In an instant, it came down right side up into my skillet! It was one of the most thrilling experiences I’ve had in a LONG time. I was so proud of myself, I gave myself a fist bump, let out a grunt, and yelled, “Yeah!”

Ken came flying into the kitchen with his wheelchair on full-power, screeching to a stop. He exclaimed, “Sweetheart! What’s wrong?”

I stared at him dumbfounded holding the skillet. Nothing was wrong. Why would he think something so momentous could possibly be wrong? “Why would your first thought be something is wrong, my dear?” With a broad smile and bright eyes, I proclaimed, “I just flipped my first crepe like Emeril on TV!”

Ken shook his head, frowned, and said, “You know, living with you sometimes can sure be crazy!”

As he turned his chair around to return to the living room, I gave him another kind of Flip — only this time I used my middle finger.

Jumping Off a Cliff Can Be a Good Thing

coyote-off-a-cliffIn 1997, I took a job as a Communication Specialist for a huge international company. I was hired to make the company website, (in the words of my boss)  “less vanilla.” At that point in time, I had no idea what the Internet was or how it worked. I took the risk to either fall on my but or create something people would use to learn about the company. I jumped off a career cliff with my eyes wide open.

In my new role, I assumed the responsibility to create a design that would be attractive and easy to use. I surfed for almost a week before I knew what would work. I discovered websites were nothing more than pictorial outlines. Knowing that, I presented my ideas, and after they was approved by the powers that be, the real challenge began.

At the early age of corporate websites, the information presented was considered “brochureware.” In other words, I needed to form a team to recreate the information on 47 different types of farm and construction equipment, which  meant coordinating efforts of web designers, programmers, artists, lawyers, and marketing people–all of whom thought and worked differently. I imagined myself like some kind of Magic Johnson, the point guard who directed the play, knowing where each player was so eventually, we all worked together as a cohesive team. I loved it.

My next employment experience was with smaller company three years later. My title was “Marketing Communication E-Commerce Administrator.” Sounds great, huh? This time I was hired to head-up a plan to develop an E-commerce website, which meant interfacing with all areas of the company and building rapport with our German arm of the organization who had done far more with their website than the rest of the company. Again, I took a chance to fly by the seat of my pants because I had no idea what “e-commerce” really entailed. Like my first assignment with the Internet, I learned I had what I needed. I knew how to build a strong team by building rapport with each member to get the job done. The risk this time was to learn about the new  functionality and capabilities of Internet development in order to coordinate the efforts of the team. I was stimulated as I convinced the old guard in the company that our efforts would help streamline their work.

Why am I telling you this? Truly, my intent is not to brag about past accomplishments, but to demonstrate how taking risks in life is a good thing. So many of us hang back and think we’re “too little” to try something new. I did that in my twenties after I married someone who constantly told me, “You can’t do that!” Finally, after 20 long years, I answered him, “Oh yes I can! Just watch me!” It took way to long to acquired the courage to shed his negativity and jump off that proverbial cliff. (Did I mention I didn’t have a job at the time I left?)

Getting divorced was probably the biggest risk I ever took, but look at all the opportunities which followed. If you live your life in a box, there’s little excitement coming your way. The box is safe. The box is familiar. You realize your limit, and finally, the box becomes a prison.

If you take a risk or enjoy a new opportunity, look up! The sky’s the limit! Like me, you’ll discover new abilities by taking the risk to fail. Chances are, you will come out just fine and wonder why you waited so long to try something new in the first place.